Okay I will just like to be left alone. You don't know my history, you don't know me, you just see what I allow you to see. With that being said I am moving because I have bigger priorities than just school. I have a family that I left behind making childish decisions. I am maturing and growing up! Unless you are paying my bills, taking over my responsibilities, putting food on my table your opinions doesn't matter to me. Unless I ask for your two cent of opinion or I come up to you asking for advice; don't take it personally I don't want to hear it.
I have a four year old daughter that needs her mother. No one that has giving me the "evil eye" or lectures of why I need to stay and finish a term that I am not even focused on because I am stressed out, homesick and thinking about New York is paying my rent, gas, food, clothes nor is working my shifts at work. Therefore, I will do whatever I see fit for my daughter and I. She has been without me for so long and doing this summer visitations is bogus and having my parents feel some type of way is not right.
Being here for three years on my own; has made me realize I can survive on my own and that if need too I can do it in NY. It is time to go back home as well as keep getting stronger. I am a young lady that has been maturing with the grace of God as well as with the help of an Angel that God has introduce me to! She has been an awesome friend, listener, helper, and a mother figure to me, without her I truly don't know where I would be.
So please leave me alone. You don't know me, don't know my history, my life story and you are not contributing to my finances therefore your opinion is invalid. Now please clock out and go home.
I think people more than anything want to see you succeed here at this school. While, collectively, we may not know your story & your reasons for leaving school (none of our business), as Professors, Teachers, etc., we hate to see students leave.
ReplyDeleteSo, please don't take it personally if someone is "evil-eyeing" you in a jokingly manner for your decision. I don't believe that it was done with ill-intent. With that being said, all the best to you and your future endeavors.
I wish you the best Claribel. God bless you and your family!
ReplyDeleteThanks Jose.
ReplyDeleteGood luck! I know you are tired to hear that, but I'm sure you will finish school one day, because you are smart. Bad timing that's all.
ReplyDeleteBeverly, I intend to finish school if I don't obtain the job that is waiting for me. However if I do get the job I will just be changing my major and get something small or something I can make a hobby, But thank you I appreciate the kind words.
DeleteSometimes I feel the same way. We as a people need to start concentrating on our own lives!
ReplyDeleteThanks Danz, I will miss you and your funny jokes. I wish you the best and we'll stay in touch. Somehow lol :)
DeleteI wish you the best Clarivel
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